Most girls think guys are complicated. They spend countless eternities asking themselves "what do guys want?" or "what is he thinking?"What a waste of time. The truth is, when it comes to love and romance, guys are as straight-forward and simple as single-celled bacteria.
There's a reason why guys are simple. A guy's brain is more logical and stable than a girl's. There are scientific reasons for this -- but it's beyond this article's scope for me to prove. Rather, I'll just invite you to read AF's relationship forum. Notice guys are rarely "confused" or ask "do I like her?" Guys are less likely to believe in nonsense like astrology, palm reading, fate, destiny, magic spells or other superstitious dribble.
It's clear guys are more logical and don't suffer from a diarrhea of emotions, uncertainty, fickleness and hormones as girls do.
Because guys are simple, it's easy to figure out his intent. If he constantly makes REPEATED and SUSTAINED efforts to get your attention and be around you, he's likely interested. If he doesn't, he doesn't. It's really that simple. Really.
So what do guys want? Clearly, his first concern is physical standards. If you don't pass, you don't play. It is in your overwhelming interest to improve your appearance and dress.
If you do pass, he'll ponder these four questions:
- Is she sweet/feminine/nice enough?
- Do I have a shot?
- Is she worth the hassle?
- Is someone else better?
Everything else is a non-factor. Any guy who says he needs to put school first or that his parents disapprove is full of shit. Unless the guy is of super high value, he's not going to care about your money, if you come from a good family, if you have a good education or whatever.
Therefore...
- If he never showed interest, you failed his physical standards.
- If he showed it but lost it, you failed one or more of those four questions
So the bottom line is, if he's interested and you give him the opportunity, reason and encouragement, he will follow through 99% of the time. If it's complicated, it's because you made it complicated.
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