A lot of people following my writings on AsianFanatics.net must wonder "JSBach, are you really that fucking good in courtship?"The answer is YES. But. Before you envy me, consider this. My expertise is geared only towards girls who are already in our lives (same school, office, church, friends, etc). That usually consists of a very narrow social pool. If that pool contains girls who are unattractive, unavailable, crazy, immature or those who have friendzoned you, you're shit out of luck. No amount of courtship mastery would matter.
This issue is especially pressing for people, including myself, who are no longer in school. Once you're in the workforce, your social outlet will consist primarily of coworkers. Workplaces are usually horrible places for courtship. Most girls there are too old, married or there's the problem with overexposure and possible complication to workplace harmony if things go badly (which is most of the time).
This is why we all need to learn how to cold approach a stranger. We bump into attractive strangers every day. If you get good, an infinite social universe will open. You would actually be able to do something productive when you encounter a hot chick, not just turn impotently to your friend and go "whoa, check her out."
Therefore, although I feel I've presented a great courtship method, it has limited applicability. I almost feel the method is irrelevant without knowing how to meet people to begin with.
That's why, when I stumbled across the pickup community after reading The Game, light bulbs went on in my head. A lot of their methods are effective and doesn't require the guy to act slimy, weird or desperate. They simply strike up a normal conversation and then, through body language and a graceful verbal dance, they start slowly ensnaring their target. There's almost a sense of beauty and intricacy to their art form, one based on intellect and social intuition.
I'll continue on this subject tomorrow...
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