(An ongoing series on AF: "Twelve common things guys do to screw up with girls")
We talked about the Nice Guy routine in the last chapter and I gave a few examples. Here are 25 more examples of a Nice Guy.
There are for the pre-dating stage. If you're not even dating yet and you do these things, you're surely headed for the friendzone.
1. You tell her, your friends or yourself that you don't think of her in a sexual way because you "respect her too much".
2. You tell her that you're "different" from other guys.
3. For her birthday, you spend more than 5 minutes thinking what to get her.
4. When you're with her, you purposely reduce friendliness to other girls to show you're not a player.
5. When you see nobody responded to her Facebook post, you feel compelled to respond so she won't feel bad.
6. You say "I don't care, what do YOU wanna do?"
7. You tell her that you want to know more about her.
8. You text, Facebook her or drop her a card telling you're thinking of her or saying hi "just because".
9. More than 20% of your texts contain smiley faces.
10. You talk about feminine things that she enjoys talking about.
11. You check your cellphone to ensure none of her text are ignored, even the spam ones.
12. When conversation ends, she's almost always the one who ends it first.
13. You tell her that seeing her makes your day brighter.
14. You've never refuse to answer any of her personal questions.
15. She saw you crying. Nuff said (you pussy).
16. You never (or rarely) reject her initiation to hang out or chat.
17. She's 30 minutes late, yet, you still wait.
18. You ask for a hug.
19. You try learning about her ex-boyfriends so that you will know how to win her.
20. You lean towards her when seated face-to-face.
21. You dread saying the wrong thing to her and feeling that you've just ruined your chances.
22. Out-of-the-blue, you say she’s cute.
23. She can't walk by without you acknowledging her in some way.
24. You tell her that you'll always be there to chat, "no matter what".
25. You do favors for her, even when she doesn't do them for you.
Further reasons why many of these examples are bad for courtship will be discussed in future articles of this series.
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