As a preface to the upcoming rebooted series on AF ("Twelve common things..."), I'd like to state a brief theory on attraction before beginning to make the 12 chapters easier to understand.
A brief theory of courtship
Women are biologically programmed througn eons of evolution to seek one thing: the survival of herself and her offsprings. Naturally, no endeavor can be more important. The best way to promote her survival is to mate with a man of high social value -- guys who are popular, has high social standing and wealth. Logically, such a guy can better promote a women's survival than someone who's shunned, anti-social and poor.
As such, a guy will improve his chances of attracting a girl if he displays high social value through...
- Speech
- Behavior
- Body language
- Social patterns
- Clothing
- Physical appearance
- Material possessions
When she sees high social value traits in you, her brain automatically equates "you" with "survival", and chemicals gets released making her physically and emotionally desire you. It doesn't matter if your assets are real of if you're a total poser. As long as she sees those traits and believes it's real, it will produce an involuntary attraction as programmed heretically.
The funny thing is, in courtship, it's better for you to be of low social value but display high value traits than to be of high social value but display low value traits. Of course, you want both (and people usally have both or neither). But in courtship, if you had to choose, you should choose to have the traits rather than the actual value.
So attracting girls is simple, somewhat. You want to do things that demonstrate higher value (DHV) and avoid the things that demonstrate lower value (DLV). You want to give the impression that hooking up with you will boost her chances of survival. Yes, it's all an illusion. The man who can best produce that illusion, whether his assets are real or fake, will be the more successful man in courtship.
With that, let's begin...
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