The science and history of attraction - Part 2

In the last post, I've revealed why women are instinctually attracted to alpha males and not Nice Guys.  Obviously, the optimum courtship strategy involves mimicking traits of alpha males and avoiding traits of Nice Guys.

Unfortunately, there is no way I can exhaustively discuss the optimum courtship strategy in one post.  Perhaps someday, I can elaborate on this blog and break it down into 10-15 posts like what I'd typically do on AsianFanatics.net.  For now, the Cliff Notes version will do.

Many of you may think that a guy's manly appearance makes him alpha.  Of course, girls are attracted to good-looking, tall, muscular guys.  Fortunately, a guy's appearance is not a make-or-break issue.  There are plenty of fugly guys with beautiful women (never the other way around).  In fact, most of the world's greatest pickup artists are not "hot" guys either.  So while having good looks will doubtlessly give you an advantage, it is not an essential trait of an alpha male. 

The following are a compare and contrast between alpha males (those successful with girls) and Nice Guys.  In doing so, it gives a quick primer on the proper courtship strategy.

Alpha: Does not chase girls
Nice Guy: Chases girls

Alpha: Has that cool and slightly aloof demeanor
Nice Guy: Always give fullest attention

Alpha: Flirts recklessly everywhere during courtship
Nice Guy: Devotes only to one girl during courtship

Alpha: Does not confess his feelings too early
Nice Guy: Confesses his feelings constantly

Alpha: Says what's on his mind regardless of consequences
Nice Guy: Tries to say only the perfect things

Alpha: Unpredictable and uncontrollable
Nice Guy: Predictable and allows her to control him

Alpha: Does not give a shit what others think about him
Nice Guy: Obsessed about wanting to be liked

Alpha: Keeps a girl guessing
Nice Guy: Tells her always where he stands

Alpha: Doesn't take her shit and can walk away
Nice Guy: Shows unconditional love

Alpha: Often unavailable
Nice Guy: "Always there"

Alpha: Mysterious
Nice Guy: Reveals all about himself

Alpha: Teases girls with witty/controversial remarks
Nice Guy: Flatters girls

Alpha: Confident almost to the point of arrogance
Nice Guy: "Do you like me?" spineless attitude

Alpha: Independent...has a life outside of any girl
Nice Guy: The girl is the center of his life

As you can see, many of the traits that makes a guy successful in courtship contridicts most of the fluff you'd see in a chick flick.  The bottom line is, no girl wants a pussy for a boyfriend.  She wants someone whom she can respect, someone to look up to, and someone who will stand up to her nonsense.  That's why you need to drop the Nice Guy routine.

For more details than you can possibly imagine on the optimum courtship strategy, please visit AsianFanatics.net and view my countless postings.