Gay guys and the proper PUA technique

Last night, I had an epiphany that I need to share with you.

I was having dinner at a restaurant where our waiter was clearly gay.  I mean, flamboyant gay.  Likeable, outspoken, funny -- the typical flamboyant gay dude.  You know what I mean.  If you don't, click here and watch this YouTube video.

If you've been around gay people in a party setting, you'd notice girls love hanging out with flamboyant gay guys. 

That's when it hit me. . . 

The reason girls love talking to them is because these guys behave almost EXACTLY like how PUAs approach women under the Mystery Method! 

From my latest series, I said girls are more likely talk to a male stranger if he displays these qualities:

- Sociable
- Funny
- Has attitude
- Not invested in the conversation
- Speaks openly
- Has NO AGENDA
- Talks "girl-friendly" topics

THESE ARE THE EXACT TRAITS OF FLAMBOYANT GAY GUYS!  Gay guys clearly have no agenda when talking to girls.  He doesn't impress them.  Rather, he speaks openly and flamboyantly on "girl-friendly" topics with that "fuck it" attitude. 

I know what some of you are thinking.  How can a girl be attracted to you if you act gay?

But remember, when first approaching a set, it has NOTHING to do with attraction.  You need to first get a conversation going.  If your set fails to grant you an audience, you’re done.  It's only once the conversation catches fire (the "hook point") is when you start to build romance. 

To moral of the story is, to get to the hook point, you need traits of flamboyant gay guys (minus the lisp, hand gestures and whiny tone).  There's something to learn from gay guys!